So the thing is: we either love someone, then they break our hearts or either we break theirs'.
This is relationships in a nutshell, I think... Of course there are exceptions! :)
I know some people dear to me..been married with children and now I find out they're getting a divorce. A week ago you could have said they were the perfect couple. At least they looked like that... One of them got "bored", but I'm not sure this might be the best word to describe it.

It's really a little hard for me to understand how can you break a marriage without fighting for it? I do believe when the right time comes and the right person, it's for better or for worse, not a contract for a few years until it's convenient. But that's their life, everybody is different.


It's interesting what turn the world is taking. Looking back to our parents, grandparents, you can say most of them live(d) happy and got old together. It was like two people got married and they formed one, united force. Two became one. Even in the hardest times they survived everything together. They believed in each other, they respected and cherished each other. This is the way it used to be. These are real marriages. These were the "rules". Of course even then, there were exceptions also.
How it is in our days... well, things got reversed. The Exceptions became the Rules, and Rules became rare Exceptions ( if I may express it this way). By this I mean people are alone, you can count on yourself and nobody else! Marriages get formed because it's convenient for both persons in some way (emotional, psychological, economical). These are the Rules (they became rules, because the majority of our society is doing it this way).
And we say surprised that "Wow..did you see Henry and Juliet? They love each other, what a wonderful couple, and they are still together, they fight for their family. How rare..." So what used to be normal, became Exceptions.
And not only relationships, marriages changed. Generations, customs change and I really don't like where it's heading.
Maybe our comfort and technology is developing, which is normally very good.
For e.g. health care is developing fast and besides of the marketing strategy (which are obvious..many things could be healed much easier, if those intelligent scientists would put certain already discovered products on the market) it's very satisfying that they can heal so many people and diseases that were incurable in the past.
But the one thing that is getting lost as we go ahead in time, is that people forget the values. Respect, honesty, self-consciousness at times, fair play etc.
It is not one man's power to change the world, as much as we'd like that.
But the values were in all of us or at least they still can be. We can't change what we've done in the past, we made mistakes, people judged us harshly at times. But we can be better. It's in all of us. Someone told me that I am capable of much more than I know of, and he's right. We all know this, sometimes there should be someone to remind us, that we can.