Love is not always about pink clouds and butterflies in the stomach. This is very well known by everyone. Love is sweet, and in my opinion the most beautiful feeling a human being can feel.
So, we musn't let it go, if we have the chance to feel the real thing.
This world is a crazy place, we can choose between so many things. Who to love, how to do that...all this by relying on our intelligence, on our experience, the way we think.
It's not easy to be with someone..to love someone..Not easy to start a relationship..or to end it...
When you meet someone, you know things are going o.k., you have to get to know the person, you have to get used to him/her. You have to accept him as he is, and know, that you musn't want to change him, because you never will. Acceptance is important, flexibility even more important. A good relationship's basis is compromise, communication, sincerity, trust.
The bad thing is, that while we are young, we cannot see these things clearly and we are driven by emotions. We argue, if we don't like something, because we want the other person's attention fully. And we make the big mistake. They think we want to trap men or something..
As I see some people get through this type of relationship, because they are not grown up sufficiently, but they don't feel, that they would be immature kids either...and they're not.
And when a relationship is over,usually, because one of the partners doesn't feel "it" anymore..it's a heartbreaking situation. Most people don't even try love a second time, because the first heartbreak hurt so bad, that you couldn't bare that pain a second time.
The worst situation is, when you both still love each other, but things just don't work, the way they should. And you have to say goodbye..I don't know how you find the strength to go on in those times...but you eventually do. It's hard when you know it was your fault, and you would take it all back, so that you can make it right....But life doesn't stop for us to cry, it moves on, and we should too. Know that there is something better out there, and that when the chance is there, don't wonder, but act!
Know, that this is what you want and you make a move and get what you wish for.
So don't waste any time suffering, hurting,thinking it through all over again, because it's your own time, your own happiness, it's one less minute you could be happy. We don't have this luxury. It's a beautiful life:)
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