Since people still have no clue what relationships are all about or what they want at all in life or how the men & women brain work differently, I want to share some things that don't hurt if people read them. Might get you to think a bit.
These are words of psychiatrists, psychologists and some people who did research.
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"Man's primary goal is to understand real love. Love is not in the other person, it's in us. We wake the feeling in ourselves. But for this we need the other person. Life has a purpose when we have with who to share our feelings and goals."

"Everything that you fight too much for will slip through your fingers."

"Can't be with you, can't be without you" - sounds familiar, huh? Many of us have probably experienced once in our lives.
Well, the doctors talk about it this way:
"This is an inter-reliance based on cowardness. When you can't decide and someone is still important for you. The selfish runs after something that he wants. Like love. So he'll become in love with the feeling. Not the person. Gives the other such attributes (in his own head), that the other doesn't have. He'll fall in love with a dream.
After the introverted guy (who's still a child emotionally) doesn't want to mature emotionally and won't accept responsibility for his feelings, after he got a little love, he doesn't want to do anything to appreciate it, because he got enough for a while. He'll come back when he's needy again.
A stable relationship will never be from a "with you, without you" type of thing."

"We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own path and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path."

"No one can do anything to give a purpose to my life, but myself."

"Every human being is unique and unrepeatable- with their personalities, their instincts, joy and their adventures."

"Love has it's own time to flourish and that is least when you want a relationship desperately. In such times your wishes aren't in balance with what you could give, so you couldn't make someone happy. "

"To exist is to change, to change is to mature, to mature is to go on creating oneself endlessly."

"The parents get the respect they desire from their children when they can give fast and strong responses to them."

"The woman becomes a real woman when in every aspect of her life she is proud of herself, cause she has done everything she could and felt."

"The more intelligent is someone the better mask he's using to trick himself, if he doesn't have inner peace in him."

"My self confidence is always the rapport between my successes and my failures."

"Someone who says 'I don't know' usually does know, but he doesn't have the courage to say it out loud."

"The pain that comes after a big loss it's important to be lived out fully & properly."

"If I know I'm made of human, I accept that in my life for some reason what I had planned couldn't occur. In such times I don't try to escape it, but I try to rethink at night what else I could have done."

"Smart-asses really are cowards, because they don't dare to see what's really in front of them, so they try to act smarter than they are to look for escapes.."

"It's necessary for human to develop into an emotionally grown up, independent personality."

"Physical beauty is never enough. Mental development is also required for a person to be beautiful. This depends only on you."

"If you don't accept that life consists of evil as well and won't look in the eye the fact that he let himself be used by others, he'll always be angry at the person by whom he was used."

"We have to find the people who deserve our honesty!" :)

"Who's spoiled by the parents, in terms of self-realization is zero."

"A balanced relationships secret is the offer, which the other accepts or not."

"The woman who tries to fight her wars in life, through her children, has a depending personality."

"Bad things happen in our lives too! There is need to be spoken out loud of the bad too!
Cause if you Speak of it, you Accept it. When you Accept it, you Absorb it. When you Absorbed it, you can Consider it. And after you've Considered it, you can make the right Decision!"

"Happiness doesn't exist for those who gave up their dreams."

"If you feel you're suffering for a love, that's not worth it. Then you're suffering because you are giving more than you receive. You suffer, because you are unable to impose your own rules in the relationship."

"You can only exploit someone who lets himself be exploited."

" When you say 'I don't know"??
Is that 'I don't want to'??? or 'I don't dare to..??' "

"Emotionally winner: accepts full responsibility for his feelings and consistently keeps it."

"(...) then I started to learn that if someone is important to me and I have unfinished things, feelings for him: tell him, talk with him about them, if he wants to until you get the chance to. Life is so short and fragile."

"Between ideas and their implementation there is a huge difference."

"In fact, courtship is complimenting and caressing with hand touching and in words, while you both respect the other person as a human being. "

"An emotionally aloof (introverted, detached, impersonal) guy's sexuality is exaggerated as in number and intensity."

"You can solve your problems only with hard work and lots of energy. Everything else is just palliative(symptomatic) care."

"Not everybody gets to be a man. Not male. A real man."

"I develop my rational intelligence by going to school, my emotional side with the fact that in certain situation I am never ashamed to talk about my feelings and accept responsibility for them."

"Power begins when someone is able to speak about his negative status', moods also. This leads to Prestige."

"I can be a clear headed man only, if I seal- in my past and my present - what is bad. If I don't do that, I go in a new relationship wanting to be happy with remorse."

"Self-esteem is given by everyone to ourselves. And only, if we work for it by resolving the rational and emotional conflicts that are in front of us."

"In most cases men hobbies are an escape from reality." ............

"The selfish man firstly damages his environment, then himself. This is where selfishness leads. Why would you do something to others that you don't desire to yourself??!"

"Very often what we mourn is not the loss of our love, but the loss of the potential love (what could have been). Because we don't truly miss the person we were with, but the person that we thought they were."

"Happiness cannot be achieved without pain. Because change and progress always comes with pain."

"The one-way adjustment is intransigence. In these times you don't dare to say what inside of you, and you let the other do what he wants of you."

"We can only change what hasn't happened yet!"

"Not external things are the ones that make us happy, but our attitude towards things. If we don't have openness in ourselves, even the most attractive partner's beauty will fade."

"If there's something wrong with you & you wanna feel better - take a pill.
You want to get it right? - face the truth."

"The weakness of will - really it's selective weakness. When you say "I'm weak, I can't do that." really you kill with cowardness the possibility of self-realization. "

"Jealousy as some would say it's a characteristic of the personality.
But medically speaking jealousy is a consequence."

"Sometimes I wonder why is that when the man is young he'd do anything to fuck up his organism, but later, when he realizes, it's often too late."

"There comes a time, when you have to stand up & shout: This is me, damn it! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love. I am a whole complex package. Take me...or leave me.. Accept me or walk away. do not try to make me feel less of a person just because I don't fit your idea of who I should be. And don't try to change me to fit your mold. If I need to change, I alone will make that decision. Love yourself, respect others, treat them the way you want them to treat you. And you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you!"